Should i stick with masturbation or start a friends with benefits relationship?
July 10, 2010 by admin
Filed under Infidelity
for some time now, I have trouble achieving orgasm through masturbation, which frustrates me. Now my friend suggested to my “friends with benefits”. The problem is that I always regret about it and feeling fear of pregnancy until the next period. I intend to get Dido for m assist in achieving an orgasm to get a friend to do it for me. By the way, my friend is not someone who I am physically attracted so it is harder for me to start. What do I do?
you could try both and see what works best
Try a pulsating handheld shower massager.They are great!! Do not start at friends with benefits relationship. It always ends up with someone getting hurt. Sooner or later, if you share the most intimate part of yourself with someone, one of you is going to fall for the other, or will find someone new and hurt the other. Either way someone will hurt. Besides, who wants to be a “booty call”. After a while you would feel used anyway.
get a deep tissue back massager, they cost around $30-40 and have a VERY powerful and fast motor that gets the job done.
Stick to the masturbating. Even if it was your friends idea, your playing with two people’s emotions, regardless if you both don’t care for each other like that, it usually always ends up messy.
i guess you could try it, and if that doesn’t work try getting a real relationship. and if that doesn’t work out, get the dildoo
I say masturbate, masturbate, masturbate! If you’re having trouble c*mming that way, believe it or not it’ll only be more difficult to get off during intercourse. And with the latter, you risk pregnancy and diseases. I don’t blame your friend for trying–for a man there is such a strong genetic urge for sex and nothing compares to the feeling a man gets when their semen flows out of their body and inside a woman. But for you, while sex can and should be pleasureable, you are much more likely to get the good feeling of orgasm via manual or oral stimulation than from the motion of a penis thrusting in and out of you.
If you’re not getting there from masturbation, then what we really need to figure out is how you can get better feelings, and ultimately hit your peak and c*m, from self-stimulation (or, perhaps if you can get your friend to do manual and/or oral on you). There are so many different techniques girls can use, you should experiment and see which makes your groin get the most pleasure–everything from rubbing your clit, to humping/grinding, to spraying water/jets against your crotch, to “vibrators” (if you don’t have access to a vibe per se, a crest spinbrush or squiggle-wiggle writer can do nicely). I’d be happy to go into more detail, email me fbarnett68@yahoo.com for info. But definitely stick with the masturbation! Sooner or later you’ll get good at it and start to recognize the sensations building in your genitals that tell you you’re close, and then how to close the deal and start getting that pulsating ecstacy down there.