How many people in their 30’s decide to stop having casual sex and wait for true love or even marriage?
May 9, 2010 by admin
Filed under Infidelity
I am 31 and if I am not a party girl, I had my share of sex that was not love. I decided to stop the business cycle occasional left me empty inside and now I want to find a supportive community that is not to demonize sex before marriage, but encourages self- respect and self-esteem than wait until you are committed to someone (as in a marriage to someone you really like) does.
people say that they choose to stop having casual sex, but in reality they are just too old/ not as attractive
you need too be happy with your self and when that happens you will find somebody who likes to be happy with you.
33 years old!
I haven’t engaged in ANY sex, to this point! I don’t believe you need to wait until marriage but I also don’t believe in casual sex either. Since I haven’t found a meaningful relationship yet, that leads to my current drought (can you have a sex drought if you have never had sex?)
I don’t know if I can help, but I will talk/listen if you need someone to!
yes it’s called a Convent.
Seriously, there’s loads of singles groups that provide activities where you can meet someone that shares your same interests and beliefs.
You”ve made the turn don’t wig out if you meet a few frogs,@ the same time you don’t have to be some heavy duty Bible thumper either.
Relax& enjoy the Journey…
I think alot of people have had there fair share of friends with benifits, myself included. One day in my early 30’s went on a date with this guy and fell in love with him and stayed faithful to him and thats when i decided that i no longer needed my friends with benifits. been almost 2 years with the same guy. go figure. sounds like to me you are ready to find someone to love and be loved i say go for it
It almost sounds like you want a church. Some of them don’t demonise sex before marriage and I think most of them provide support groups to encourage self respect and waiting for marriage. In any case, lots of them have singles groups that go out for (clean) fun, and sometimes you could find the love of your life there. I found mine in a church group, on an outing to a leagues club, but I was 21, not 31. We’re now 52 and she’s still the love of my life, and always will be.
You need Jesus sweetheart, you need someone to talk to in your spare time. You are not getting no younger, so you need to ask GOD for forgiveness, because If you don’t, then you will continue to go in the wrong path…The older you get, the wiser you get..(think about it)
I have a very good friend who is in her late thirties. She decided 10 years ago to stop sleeping with anyone she dates. She is waiting for marriage. Alot of guys are turned off by it. But I admire her and everyone else with her opinion.