Having affair….advice how to end it….?
May 25, 2010 by admin
Filed under Affair Advice
Case has been for three months, I know it’s wrong, wasting my time and energy. I seriously want to end it. We are both married, working in the same place, then we see every other day. I tried to put an end once b4 but unccessfull. He said that if I want to end it, he’ll let me go, but he’ll be here waiting, no matter what. I’m away from my husband yet because of my work. I like him, and whenever I find myself thinking about the other man, I feel really bad. The problem is we really moi.Pourrait give me some advice on how to get out of this? Just some advice please, I already feel very badly about myself.
simple… move back to your husband.. and FAST.. you’re feeding a greed for passion, and nothing else…
you really should be looking into your own house for that…
just end it! tell him u don’t wanna live in guilt anymore.
you said he agrees then it shouldn’t be a problem breaking up with him?
don’t tell me u fall a bit for him? omg..
end it now before it’s too late.
Report: Griffey’s parents have cancer
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Both of Ken Griffey Jr.’s parents were recently diagnosed with cancer, according to a report in the Cincinnati Enquirer.
Griffey’s mother, Birdie, was scheduled to undergo colon cancer surgery Thursday in Orlando, Fla.
And according to the Enquirer Junior nearly opted out of the lineup for Thursday’s series finale vs. St. Louis to be with his mother.
Griffey, however is in the lineup and batting third for the Reds.
Obviously, this is one of the most trying times in Griffey’s life as he reportedly learned about his mother’s cancer shortly after learning that his father, Ken Sr., was suffering from prostate cancer.
“Not one parent but both your parents,” he said. “It’s been tough.”
Griffey, according to the Enquirer, has known about his father’s cancer for about a week and a half. He found out about his mother’s a few days later.
Ken Sr., 57, and Birdie are divorced.
Not being with them has made things difficult.
“You want to be able to look into their eyes and see if they’re bending the truth,” Griffey said.
Just say no and keep your pants on!
STOP NOW!!! You both will regret it. You will both get hurt and hurt others involved. You are both married and it is Wrong. If you really feel strong about each other,then at least divorce and get it over with. Just do not cheat. It will haunt you the rest of your life. Believe me, Been there done that. It hurts everybody involved and eventually if you cheated once,it will happen again. Get some marriage counseling or end your marriage before you move on to someone else. That is only fair. Chances are this romance you have going won’t last anyway. It’s dangerous and it is Adultry. Think about what the penalty is for adultry. You will be sorry. STOP…Good Luck
Simply you just need to end it.. no longer have contact with the other man. As well seek counseling ..
Hugs Mel
if he pressures during work, it is sexual harrassment. threaten to tell your boss. if it continues, do it.
Decline, rejects when he ask 4 a date.
Don’t make any appointment with him alone.
If u want only friendships 2 continue, u can get a friend/s 2 go along with.
Try 2 talk only base on ur works & nothing affectionate issues.
Make more contacts with ur husband.
Try 2 put up photos of u & husband or photos with kids together in ur office room.
This will help 2 remind u that u r married. A luving husband is always waiting 4 u there!
how can you even say you love your husband because your cheating on him with another man your not even thinking about his feelings all you can think is you i mean your selfish you need to cut the other man lose for good and start worrying about your husband…
You really need to ask your self this…What was your reason behind your affair? and why is it that you find yourself thinking of other man? You say you love your husband, but could you be mistaking love with feeling sorry for him because he is a good man and you feel bad for doing this to him? You couldn’t possibly love your husband and think or even look at other man…Something is missing in your marriage, partnership and you seek it else where…If you find it hard to break your affair off its because subconsciously you dont really want to…You need to admit this to your self and accept it….You need to divorce your husband and put an end to your double life…He obviously doesn’t deserve it, and the least you could do is set him free.
The question lays with you, are you really happy in your marriage with out the need to stray? if not then you need to sit down and have a heart to heart with yourself and admit to what you truly want if you want to find happiness and contentment.
You need to quit your job. I’m serious. It’s like staying out in the sun too long. How do you avoid constantly getting sunburned? You have to get out of the sun and your skin will heal. The only way is to get him out of your life. Change jobs, change phone #’s including your cell. Out of sight, out of mind. It’s romantic to think absence makes the heart grow fonder but that is only for a little while. And seek counseling for yourself. There is a reason why you did this and it will happen again if you don’t understand why. Good luck to you.
karma will cure it for you……just a matter of time.
Are you looking for a screen play or manuscript on what to say? The guy said he’ll let you go, so your job is to let go as well. No phone calls or interacting outside of work. That should do it.
It’s almost impossible to end an affair voluntarily and without hard feelings, unless you get caught! Most times, one person wants to end it and the other doesn’t so you get into this cycle of breaking it off and starting over again. I suggest that you create a phony new lover and tell your guy about him. That is usually a turn-off for most guys.
How would you feel if another woman’s having an affair with your husband??? Would you like that??? I guess not! So stop having an affair with this married guy and yeahh…keep your pants on and make sure it’s zipped!