Comments on: Ex boyfriend, married a month ago, wants to relive our intimate encounters?

By: nita

nita — Sun, 16 May 2010 21:42:19 +0000

let him be. he has no business contacting you in the first place. and you will ,i’m sorry you are a fool if you want to tell his wife so she can dump him and get with you. find someone who is unattached and wants to start new encounters with you. got it. and leave that woman alone.

By: Nena S

Nena S — Sun, 16 May 2010 21:11:31 +0000

You don’t tell his wife anything. She will find out sooner or later that he is a cheater.

And you should avoid ALL contact with this man if you want to move on and actually have a chance at finding a nice man.

This guy has used you before, knows you care about him, and is playing mind games with you. If you continue to have contact, sooner or later you will meet and you will bed him and then you will be miserable because he can’t be with you.

If you decide to continue playing with fire, you will get burned!
Your choice…..

By: findinggodsmissions@yahoogroups

findinggodsmissions@yahoogroups — Sun, 16 May 2010 20:59:17 +0000

I have ran into something similar over the last couple of years. I watched a x play 2 guys at the same time, and get away with it. I know that everytime I am around her that she knows that I know, which she got away with what she did to me also. The fact is their is children involved, and I do not want to upset the order of her life with her new husband. I once held a lot of vengence in my life to let her go through the pain which I went through, by getting caught. The answer which I came up with was for me to pray for her to stop doing what she is doing, and for the children not to know the dark side which exists within their moms life. A child should not be exposed to such abuse, and the way the divorce court system works, I would have to reveal my x, which would upset her which would play out in the childrents lives. Our nations custody courts, are a joke. Their is nothing equal about them, or the custody you will have is determined to not be equal. In NC there has to be considered a primary which ends up with all the power. If anyone would like it to be equal, be ready to pay a ton of money which could be spent on the children, and bash the other parent. The more they keep you in court the more the lawyers, and government makes off it. If you had a choice from the beginning to be completely equal people would stay together, and work out their problems. When divorce wasn’t so easy, people would take their marriage vowels more serious, and children had better lives, with great role models.

By: Shel M

Shel M — Sun, 16 May 2010 20:03:50 +0000

Don’t give him the satisfaction of knowing he can still have you and a wife. To him, you were not worthy of marrying but ok for sex, etc. You will eventually realize this cannot work, unless he divorces his wife to be with you then he doesn’t truly want to be with you. You will soon find yourself questioning your own worth, and it will be torture to see him pour himself into his new wife and future kids while you are sitting by the phone hoping for a booty call. Don’t tell the wife, but don’t do anything with him. Cut off contact if he can’t just be your friend without anything intimate.

By: Thomas

Thomas — Sun, 16 May 2010 19:36:40 +0000

First tell him what you to had is now over and he should be happy with the woman he married. And that you want your own companion than sharing one. That you have learn that what you did wasn’t something that you would like to continue with someone else companion. Come straight to the point and be frim about it. If he fail to understand, just tell him that you want to ask your wife if its ok to see you on the side. Hopefully this will sink in….good luck