Are discreet encounters really possible?
To go straight to the point. . . my sex life with my partner is great. . . but it is not often enough. I want to experiment and play more, but our roles seem reversed. It reached its peak and he sleeps while I want more. I want someone to link the past, his massage, tease and please as we both have everything that can possibly stand. How can I make him play more or how can I find someone (discreetly) to just play and not fall in love. I already love my family .**** SWEET MILDRED my head. Join me in the park ***
re: I already love my family.
………..FOR THE SAKE OF YOUR CHILDREN………
figure out how to play these games with their mom BUT…..
do whatever it takes to parent your kids WITHOUT DAMAGING THEM!
You need to be worried about how soon the divorce will be final.
For better or worse…….Sound familiar?
Your a POS.
It’s not good. Sure it’s possible, but why hurt someone you love? She may not know, but it’s still wrong.
You need to be focusing that energy on your wife-not looking for a playmate. Suggest sex therapy and communicate with your wife what you are wanting. Try tantric sex workshops and kama sutra-spice it up at home-don’t go looking for drama.
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You need to talk to your wife and quickly!
Discreet encounters are possible for a short period of time only. Sooner or later your wife will find out. Then you will lose her and your family.
Explain to her your sexual needs. She should be willing to accommodate you. If not, you two should consider going your separate ways. She can’t expect you to be faithful under these circumstances.
If you cheat on her before actually talking to her first, then you will be come just like all of the other cheating men in the world. However, I do applaud you for recognizing and wanting to correct the problem.
No, discreet encounters are not possible. Someone ALWAYS gets hurt. Don’t do it.
You say your sex life is great with her, so what’s the problem? Tell her your desires and I’m sure you two will work something out.
NO ONE likes a cheater.
Get some porn, stay faithful.
Have you talked to your wife about this?
What I would do, in your situation, is find a video or mag that depicts that activity and share it with her. Let her know it turns you on and ask her if she’d be willing to try it.
If she will watch a movie with you and you could just sort of spontaneously say “that looks like fun – let’s try it!”, you could safely slip the suggestion in without sounding like you’ve been plotting it or coming off as a freak if she’s not into it.
Of course, if she’s one of those “anti-porn” women, you’ll have to take a different approach. But if you are in a rut, sexually, talk to her about it and let her know you want more.
They are possible but more often not one of you will end up wanting more.
It’s best to talk to your wife and have these experiences with her. You might be surprised and she has her own little fantasies about things you don’t know about.
Communication and understanding are key in any relationship. If you have none, you’ll never get what you want out of it.
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